| Location | Middlesex |
| Age | 21 years |
| Date of Birth | 23/12/1979 |
| Date of Death | 24/04/2001 |
| Visitors | 4,017 since 23/05/2007 |
| Creator |
Lee anthony paul venes
24th april 2001
21yrs
Burnt Oak Middlesex
Lee had 1 elder sister lorraine
Lee went into a dibetic coma
lee was born on the 23rd december 1980 weighing 71b13oz a brother for lorraine.he was a mischevious
child but very loving all ways on naughty chair at playgroup bless him.lee took up jazz tap & modern
danceing at the age of 6yrs done many a shows & some filming. sadly he had to give this up when he
started work but have got some good video's of his memories and his danceing shoes under our bed.lee
would always try his hand at learning most things & achieved a lot in his short life.He loved his
niece jade who was only 5yrs old when lee passed away.then lorraine had another girl chloe who was
born in the january after lee died. but im sure lee has seen her as she very mischevious as lee
was.there never a day goes by when we not thinking of him & miss him so much. but can feel him
around us all the time.Love u lee mum & dad xxxxx
with love
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Pass this hug to all of
your friends and back
to me, see how many
you get back!
1-5 HUGS….Your on
someones mind!
5-10 HUGS…Someone
likes you!
10-15 HUGS..Someone loves
you very much
15-20 HUGS..WOW! you
are really loved by alot
We do not need a special day
To bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you
Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake,
We know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heart ache
As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
Your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly;
In death we love you still.xxx
Hi yah son
Hi yah lee hope all is well what a lovely day today for a change. Scouser billy died this morning so another mate on his way up to you. Dad not been to well with a virus but feeling a bit better. Chloe comeing for the week end god help me Ah!Ah! no she not that bad realy has calmed down a lot but still has her moments. Love you son xxxxxxxxxxx
THANK YOU
For your lovely words of support. They mean so much. And for all the candles you have lit on Stephanie site. It is very much appreciated. I would just like to say i am thinking of you and your angels
Hope you had a lovely weekend
always in my thoughts
Love Jo xXx
Mums united in our grief x x x
The Pit of Grief
The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.
The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.
Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes, I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.
Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.
Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.
My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see, they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance, rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better, to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The 'person' who is emerging from the pit.
All my love to you Elaine x x
Love Lynsey ~ mala normans sister
Mum, please listen to me
As I take time to write.
I see parents struggling daily.
Their pain is such a fight..
All of us who have gone on
And left the rest of you behind..
We're ok, Mum, I promise..
Heaven is beautiful, and God is kind.
You used to tell me that one day
God would call and take you home.
You told me you'd make me strong
So I would stand tall when alone.
But things happen sometimes, Mum
That does not go in our plans.
I wasn't scared, Mum,
When God held out his hand.
I didn't want to leave you
I didn't have time to say good bye
When the angels said, 'Come with us.',
There wasn't time to question why.
I've watched you daily, Mum.
It hurts to see you cry.
I don't want you to be unhappy,
Just because we didn't get to say good bye.
Tell the others what I'm telling you,
So many parents need to know
That Earth was just a lay over
We had another place to go.
I know you miss me, Mum
I know your heart was broken in two,
But God really needed me
Because my earthly life was through.
I'm always alongside you..
I smile and touch your hair.
I whisper 'Mum, I love you',
You just can't see me there.
I'm the one who gently touches you
On your shoulder when you're sad.
I'm happy now that you finally found
God again, and are no longer mad.
Tell the parents, Mum, for me
That all of us kids are okay.
God had plans for our lives
When he called us home that day.
I love you, Mum, I always will
And remember I'm not far away.
We're going to be together
When God calls out your name..xX
Special Friend
GOD,
*.*.*.OPENED
* ...*.*. THE WINDOWS
* * .* *.*.*.* OF HEAVEN.
.*) .*) *.*.*LOOKED AT ME
. (... *.*.*.**.*.*.*AND ASKED,
..*(...) .*.*.*.*.* **.*. *WHAT IS YOUR
* ....(...) * . * . * .* *PRAYER
* .*.. *....* (...) * .*FOR
.. *..(...). *....* .*TODAY?
.* ... *.... * *. * . * .**I
. * . * . . * . *.*. * . **ANSWERED:
__00000___00000 *.*. * .* .*GOD
_0000000_0000000. * . * .*TAKE
_0000 OOOO 00000. * . * .*CARE
__0000000000000 * . ** .*OF THE
___00000000000 * . *. * . * .*PERSON
_____0000000 * . *. * . ** *.*THAT
_______000 * . *. * * * .*.*IS
________0* . * .. ** .. * .*.*READING
. * .. ** .. * . * . * .* . *.*THIS
. * . (.. *** /) * .*.*MESSAGE
* . * ( ..(_)/ ) * * .BECAUSE
* . * (_ /|.. _) . **.* THIS PERSON IS
* . * . /___.. * . .* .*SO
. * * . * . * *SPECIAL
Miss U Lee
missing you
hello bruv missing you more & more eachday.Why did you have to go?What we would do to get you back ,even if it was only for a day just to have a cuddle & chat. We would have loved you to meet chloe.You would have loved her the things she gets up to, just like you when you was little. Big hugs & kisses until we meet again one day love u lots lorrainexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi lee
Hi Lee. sorry havent been able to get on for a while,Hope u had a fun at christmas & new yr with all your angel m8's.as u probably know we had a good xmas with family & new yr in cyprus.As soon as this weather drys up will be over to visit you. missing you & thinking of you always. mum & dad xxxxxxxx
Never Forgotton
♥ A Golden Heart Stopped Beating♥
♥ Two Shining Eyes At Rest..♥
♥ God Broke Our Hearts To prove He Only Takes The Best..♥
♥ God knows U Had To Leave Us..♥
♥ But Baby You Didn’t Go Alone..♥
♥ For Part Of All Us Went With U Too
♥ The Day That God Called You And Took U Home
♥ To Some Your Forgotton...
♥ To Others Your Already The Past..
♥ But To Us Who Lost U The memories will always last...
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